We’ve all been there – in the first few moments of waking up your mind wanders off and it turns to him. You may think about waking up without him, wonder what he is doing and how he is, you may check out social media to see if he’s been online, even contemplate getting in touch with him (DON’T).
If you’ve been through a break up, it’s only natural to miss him. Missing someone shows that you are a good, decent person. So don’t punish yourself for having these thoughts. Instead remember that you are human, affectionate and a loving person.
Then remember that your life is about you – what you want and what you deserve. One thing you deserve is to be happy and to be with someone who adores you for who you are. Whether you want to get back together with him or not, remember this is true. Right now you need space (even if you don’t think so) and he needs space – so move along with today for yourself.
So wake up, stretch, look outside and appreciate yourself and the world and be nice to yourself – tell yourself you are a good person and you’re going to be more than okay. Enjoy your day, smile to people and love yourself. You deserve it.